Friday, September 23, 2016

The two Great Commandments [Religion/Homosexuality]

          I don't want to start a war of scriptures here. I'm just sharing my guiding life verse, Matthew 22:34-40. "But when the Pharisees had heard that he had put the Sadducees to silence, they were gathered together. Then one of them, which was a lawyer, asked him a question, tempting him, and saying, Master, which is the great commandment in the law? Jesus said unto him, Thou shalt love the Lord thy God with all thy heart, and with all thy soul, and with all thy mind. This is the first and great commandment. And the second is like unto it, Thou shalt love thy neighbor as thyself. On these two commandments hang all the law and the prophets." For the quoted text I used the King James Version bible that my grandma gave to me so many decades ago.
If I hold to the above scripture it keeps life and what I'm supposed to do much simpler. Otherwise we quickly descend into interpretation, definitions, context and then what did the original Greek word mean. It just never ends. Scripture is hurled back and forth like word grenades. No quarter is given.
As an example, would it be neighborly or loving of me to call a gay neighbor an abomination? If that neighbor is a "None" (No religious affiliation) that I would like to talk with about Jesus, being saved and Christianity? That really wouldn't be a good way to start a conversation let alone build a neighborly relationship. The problem we have in building the faith is that MILLIONS of Christians are SHOUTING from the rooftops and the World Wide Web that gays are an abomination before God as well as citing any number of other hateful, non-loving scriptures to anyone that will listen.  
Churches are being busted up and/or closing over the issue of homosexuality. People are leaving the faith. Families are being torn up. In the United States, the Christian faith, based on the bible, declines in numbers with each passing year. People have made an idol of words. They worship the words.
There are some hard words in the bible. Real. Hard. That’s the truth of the matter. We have to live with that. But we do have the example of Jesus before us as well and those two great commandments. So would gay people be an abomination before Jesus? No. No, they would not.
Do we as Christians fulfill the second great commandment if we deny our neighbor a service like baking a cake for their wedding? Jesus would have baked them 2 cakes.  People will argue with that. People will argue with any number of simple acts of kindness and love. In the final analysis Jesus had a servant’s heart and encouraged the same in us.
We reduce arguments to niches, clichés and often make it personal. I read a comment that said if we want our nation to be Christian (I'm paraphrasing) then we need to stop voting for Liberals. Then we place people in niches as being conservative, right wing, left wing, liberal or some mix thereof.
If we’re going to use clichés and niches then Jesus would qualify as a bleeding heart liberal with the things that he says. At least that is what the Pharisees would say.  He put the poor waaaay before the rich. It seems I remember him telling some rich young guy to sell all his stuff and give it away. He didn’t. He liked his stuff. What would Jesus tell the “one percenters” of today to do with their incredible wealth?
I'm old enough to remember the time when people who were divorced were looked down upon by the church. (Some still do.) If Christianity hadn't loosened up as to the treatment of divorced couples the numbers of church members would have been decimated even further.
People can't talk me out of my faith. Even for the four decades that I didn’t go to church I never lost my faith. It’s like that for some of us.
The Nones may not even want me trying to talk them into the faith. That’s their call. That’s the way it works. But if I do try, I don’t plan to insult or vilify them first.

 So as believers we're stuck in a Catch 22 because we're supposed to talk about our faith; bring people to the faith. We certainly aren't supposed to deny it. That's why our actions, how we behave and what we say are so important. We have to look like we have something that people want, something that they can apply to their daily lives that will have relevancy; that will make them want to talk to us. Whether they talk with us or not we have done what we are supposed to do. We have served humanity and a higher purpose by looking past ourselves in the service to others.